Mother-son principals have own style but share love for Catholic schools

PORTLAND, Ore. (CNS) -- They're the only mother-son principals in the history of Oregon Catholic schools. And go figure -- both have impeccable comic timing.

Sue Harris, 57, is principal of St. Cecilia School in Beaverton and the mother of Chris Harris, the 34-year-old head of St. Agatha School in Portland.

"We have our own styles and our own schools, but I treasure the time we have to work together as colleagues," said Chris, who two years ago left a teaching post in Burien, Washington, to bring his young family closer to grandma and grandpa.

"We agreed on that idea," said Sue, flashing a thumbs-up.

Not that they don't compete. A worker at St. Agatha found an old trophy and spruced it up with an inscription that said "Principal's Cup." When the St. Agatha Storm and St. Cecilia Cyclone meet on the basketball or volleyball court, the prize goes to the winning school until the next contest.

"We are the only two weather-related mascots in the archdiocese," Chris told the Catholic Sentinel, newspaper of the Portland Archdiocese. "And we're proud of that."

Both are aware, Sue painfully so, that St. Agatha was founded 105 years ago and St. Cecilia 103 years ago.

"I'm never going to catch up," she said.

Mostly, the mother-son principal duo love and respect each other and have zeal for Catholic education. Both attended Catholic schools before choosing to teach.

"It's a real privilege and blessing for me to be able to see Chris -- I would not say follow in these footsteps -- but be part of that same passionate draw that Catholic education really brings to you," Sue said.

Chris wanted to be a teacher even as a boy. He would round up the neighborhood kids, bring them into the playroom and conduct class. He recalls watching his mother at school assemblies and was impressed with the way she carried herself.

He recalls summer road trips as a boy. He and his brother would peer into the front seat to see their mother writing up a master plan. He remembers seeing a blueprint of Portland's St. John Fisher School spread on the dining room table.

"I learned how to be a leader by osmosis," said Chris, adding that his mother taught him the importance of balance, making sure there is ample family time. Sue and husband Brad, who have been married for 36 years, saw to it that the family had dinner together as often as possible. If Sue had a night meeting, she came home to put the boys to bed.

Even now, Sue keeps a watchful eye out for Chris and alerts him if he seems to be working too hard.

"She has been my boss," Chris said, as he was about to describe a stint as a substitute teacher at St. John Fisher School, where his mom was principal. But first Sue interjected, "Yes. In so many ways."

At each other's school auctions, the mother and son have joked about bidding on the "Principal for a Day" item so they can team up more.

They say they learn from each other. Sue has years of experience. Chris is navigating a new era of leading Catholic schools with young eyes.

Sue knows that there are more demands on principals now than when she started in 1991, such as long lists of emails and the ongoing need to update technology.

"Sometimes when he has shared some things with me and we are talking shop, I say, 'Yeah. I've never had to deal with that,'" Sue explained.

When principal talk gets going thick at a family gathering, Sue and Chris will see other people's eyes glaze over and know it's time to stop.

Both mother and son have chosen Catholic schools because they believe in faith-based education and appreciate the variety and homeyness of the work.

"We do wear all the hats," said Sue. "We are the counselor, we are the vice principal in many cases. Frankly for us, it's 'get the wrench and fix the urinal.'"

Benedictine Father Nathan Zodrow, pastor of St. Agatha, said Chris is young with all the qualities you'd expect of youth: energy, stamina and creativity. But perhaps in part because of his mother, Chris also has wisdom uncommon at his age.

"He has great confidence in facing day-to-day issues," said Father Zodrow. "He's very good at communicating with parents and family. He's been a wonderful partner in our mission with the school."

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Langlois is editor of the Catholic Sentinel and El Centinela, the English- and Spanish-language newspapers of the Archdiocese of Portland.